Being a birthing partner is often described as a privilege. When you ask someone to be a birthing partner they will see you in a highly vulnerable state. This is possibly in a way they’ve never seen you before. They will experience a moment with you that is unlike any other and that you may only do once or twice in your life.
Is it not just about being there at the delivery?
A birthing partner isn’t just about being at the birth to see the baby being born. Although of course this is a huge highlight! Being a birthing partner is a hugely important role. How supportive a birthing partner is can actually have an affect on how the labour may go.
What makes a good birthing partner?
For a good birthing partner, think about picking someone you feel completely comfortable with. They should be able to help you in the way that you need during labour. It’s a good idea to share your birth preferences with them beforehand. This is so they can help communicate your needs and wants during labour to the staff caring for you.
Birth partners
Induction
One birthing partner is welcome to attend your induction with you and stay for all of your labour care. A second birthing partner can join you when you are moved to your delivery room.
Labour
One birthing partner is welcome to attend with you for assessment of labour, if it is time to stay a second birthing partner can join you and stay for all of your labour care.
Planned caesareans
Your birthing partner is welcome to attend with you from admission. They will accompany you to theatre for the birth of your baby.
