As well as providing emotional support, counselling can contribute to the reduction of symptoms related to stress, anxiety and low mood/depression.
What is the fertility counsellor’s role?
You can explore and discuss any difficulties, distress or uncertainty that you may be experiencing in a confidential setting.
The implications of fertility treatment or gamete and embryo donation/storage on your health and well-being can also be explored.
Who can access the counselling service?
Our counselling is available for everyone.
For people who are undergoing certain treatments, providing counselling is required part of the centre’s licence conditions and is built into treatment. These include:
- Surrogacy arrangements as an intended parent
- Surrogates
- Egg sharers
- Treatment with donated eggs, sperm or embryos, including mitochondrial donation.
All of the above patients will have at least one counselling session prior to signing consent forms. This is to ensure that all psychological impacts are explored and patients are fully informed before proceeding.
Counsellor availability and access to the service
You may attend with your partner or individually.
Each session usually lasts an hour and arranged to be weekly, fortnightly or monthly, depending on your needs. There is no set number of sessions – timings and frequency will be agreed with the counsellor.
We aim to be as flexible as possible by providing face-to-face, telephone or video appointments.
Sean Lowden (BA Hons) Counselling, MBACP (Accredited), BICA Foundation (Cert)
The counsellor’s working hours are 9.30am – 5.30pm Monday to Friday and appointments are currently available at 11am, 2pm or 4pm each day.
Please leave your full name, date of birth and contact telephone number. Sean will try to respond within 72 hours.
Contact the counsellor for further updates on appointment times, as more sessions may be available or cancellations may become available for short notice interventions.
Confidentiality
What you talk about during your counselling session is private and confidential between you and the counsellor.
There are however, situations when the counsellor cannot hold information you share as private and confidential. These situations are:
- You are at risk of harm to yourself or from others
- Others are mentioned as being at risk from themselves, you or others
- A safeguarding issue related to any child
- Terrorism or extremist plots/action that put the public at risk
- Anything deemed illegal by law
The counsellor has a duty of care to contact the appropriate authorities if any of the above surface during your session(s).
The counsellor may discuss your case information in the confidential setting of their clinical supervision.
The counsellor keeps digitally secure brief notes on your session(s). You and the courts/police have a legal right to access these notes. If these notes were requested, we would seek your permission to release them.
Support groups & resources
Support groups offer a chance to meet and share experiences with others who are also trying to conceive. You can participate as much, or as little, as you wish and sessions are informal. You can attend as a couple or individually. Peer support provides an opportunity to learn from others going through a similar experience.
Newcastle Fertility Network Support Group works closely with Fertility Network UK and is held on the second Tuesday of every month. Posters are displayed in clinic or for more information contact: [email protected]. You can also join the closed Facebook group at www.facebook.com/groups/newcastlefertilitygroup.
Other useful resources
Fertility Network UK
Web: www.fertilitynetworkuk.org
Email: [email protected]
Donor Conception Network
Web: www.dcnetwork.org
Email: [email protected]
Daisy Network (Premature Menopause Support Group)
Web: www.daisynetwork.org
Email: [email protected]
The Miscarriage Association
Web: www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk
Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA)
Web: www.hfea.gov.uk
Childlessness Overcome Through Surrogacy (COTS)
Web: www.surrogacy.org.uk Email: [email protected]
The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
Web: www.ectopic.org.uk
HIMFertility (Male Infertility Support)
Web: www.himfertility.com
Social media
Twitter: @NewcastleFert
Instagram: @NewcastleFertility