This page will provide you with information about mindfulness meditation to help you relax.
The walking meditation
If you do any period of undisturbed walking during the day — at least ten or fifteen minutes — then you can do a little walking mindfulness meditation.
It’ll be easiest if done somewhere with fewer distractions, but try it anywhere and see what happens.
As when cultivating all forms of mindfulness, it’s about focusing the attention.
At first, people often concentrate on the sensation of their feet touching the ground.
Then you could just as easily focus on your breath or move the attention around your body, part by part.
The key, though, is to develop a sort of relaxed attention. When your mind wanders away, bring it back gently, without judging yourself.
The eating meditation
Will you be eating any food today?
Thought so.
So you can practice a little mindfulness meditation while you eat.
When you take the first bite of any meal, just take a moment to really pay attention to the taste.
Look at the food carefully, feel the textures in your mouth, smell it and notice how your body reacts to it.
You don’t need to keep this up all the way through the meal, but use it every now and then to focus your attention.
Mindful mini-break
Checking email has now become, for many, what we do in between other tasks, sometimes as a kind of break.
Change this.
Instead, drop the email and practice one of the mindfulness exercises.
Turn away from the computer/tablet/smartphone and sit for a moment noticing the sensations in your mind and body.
How do you feel? What can you hear?
Try to be as present in that moment.
If your mind wanders off to tasks that you have to complete or starts working over things that happened yesterday, let these go.
Gently bring your mind’s focus back to the present. Just be wherever you are for a few moments.
Remember: mindfulness is not about trying to make sense of anything, it’s about attention to that moment.
Listen mindfully
Any time that’s convenient, try a little mindful listening.
We get used to a lot of the sounds that are around us and quickly tune them out.
If you live in the city, there might be police sirens, train announcements and people sneezing.
In the countryside there could be trees rustling, birds calling or a gate creaking.
What can you hear right now?
Or, put on some music and really listen to it for a short period: try to hear the music without thinking about it.
Try not to let your mind wander to things it reminds you of, to judgements about the music or think about the lyrics too much.Just allow the music to flow over you and for you to flow into the music.
Mindful brushing
Some things we do so often that we almost don’t notice them any more.
Habits, like brushing your teeth, are usually performed automatically, while the mind skips off to other plans, worries or regrets.
Instead, try to focus on that chore and really experience it. Notice how the brush moves over your teeth and the taste of the toothpaste.
Another routine that can incorporate mindfulness exercises is showering or bathing.
Let your senses feed on the process and bring your mind back when it wanders off to other worries or thoughts.
You can perform any chore mindfully and you might be surprised what you notice.
Just one breath
At any time during the day, take a moment to focus on one breath.
Breathe in, then breathe out.
Focus your attention on how this feels, where you notice the air moving, how your chest and abdomen move.
Try it now.
You’re not looking for a revelation from this experience; think of it more like a little mental push-up for your mind.
That’s it, or if you want to extend it to a few more breaths, that’s fine.
Candle meditation
Of all the mindfulness exercises, this requires a little preparation: you need a candle and a darkened room.
Sit for a while watching the candle and focusing on the flame (don’t sit too close).
You are not trying to stare it out or ‘think’ about the chemical reaction that is going on.
In fact, you are not ‘trying’ to do anything: it’s more that you are just noticing the candle in a simple, pure way.
Experience nature
If your walking mindfulness exercises should happen to take you to a park or green space of some kind, then this is the perfect opportunity for a little more mindfulness meditation.
As you stand, sit or walk, try to become more aware of nature around you.
See the different types of leaves; hear the bird calls, the wind and the distant rumble of traffic; sense the air moving over your skin and sun heating your face.
Again, after a few moments, your mind may try to wander where it will.
Be kind to yourself: gently nudge your attention back to nature and your surroundings.
Many people do this naturally when they are in nature but do not necessarily label it as one of the mindfulness exercises.
It’s doesn’t matter what you call it, as long as your attention is focused on the present moment.
Mindfulness exercises
Hopefully these will give you some ideas about how to practice mindfulness exercises during your day.
As mindfulness expert, Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn, says:
“Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way; on purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgmentally.”
Don’t feel limited by these mindfulness exercises. Feel free to mix and match or fit them into your life anyway you can.
Almost any activity can incorporate some mindfulness exercises.
About the author
Psychologist, Jeremy Dean, PhD is the founder and author of PsyBlog. He holds a doctorate in psychology from University College London and two other advanced degrees in psychology.
He has been writing about scientific research on PsyBlog since 2004. He is also the author of the book “Making Habits, Breaking Habits” (Da Capo, 2003) and several ebooks:
Ways to learn and practice relaxation techniques
- Search for local classes or 1-2-1 sessions
- Yoga
- Pilates
- Mindfulness
Try online for further information and support:
Mindfulness – NHS websiteFree guided mediations
Tinnitus websiteFor tinnitus support and information
British Tinnitus Association support groupRelaxation and meditation
Starkey Relax
Soothing pictures and sounds, sleep timer
Resound Tinnitus Relief
Nature sounds with gentle music, download relaxation exercises, exercises incorporating CBT and mindfulness elements
White Noise Lite
40 nature sounds that allow customization and mixing, can be expanded to over 100 sounds by adding free White Noise Market App.
Mindfulness daily
This introduces mindfulness and compassionate ways of thinking, using short mindfulness meditation exercises.
Calm
Calm offers guided meditations, Sleep Stories, breathing programs and relaxing music. Recommended by top psychologists and mental health experts to help you de-stress.
Buddhify
Buddhify is described as the mindfulness app for modern life. It has a mixture of short and long relaxation scripts and mindfulness meditation practices. The app provides a host of suggestions of how to add short moments of relaxation to ease that tension that can build up during the day! Re
Relax Meditation and Relax Melodies
Relax Meditation is a relaxation tool based around CBT, which also has sound samples. Relax Melodies is by the same developers and provides soothing music and sound tracks. Both apps can be tailored to your needs.
Spotify
Spotify combines millions of music tracks that can be listened to free of charge when you are connected to the internet. A paid Premium membership allows you to download the tracks onto your phone/tablet to be used when you are not connected to the internet. There is a multitude of meditation, nature and Zen sounds available for Mindfulness, Meditation and Relaxation, without the need to purchase CDs.
YouTube
Mindfulness TechniquesAuthor and illustrator Matthew Johnstone reveals how simple daily mindfulness practices can help us be more present, more positive, have better health and greater clarity.
Overcoming DepressionIn collaboration with the World Health Organisation, writer and illustrator Matthew Johnstone tells the story of overcoming the “black dog of depression”.
YogaGentle floor-based exercise videos that can help with well-being, relaxation and fitness. Yoga incorporates elements of meditation and breathing exercises. There are a multitude of videos on offer for free, ‘Yoga with Adriene’ has a good collection to start.